It was worth a pretty penny. Ended stuff by cussing each other out and blocking. Have a spare key to his place he doesn’t know about. He isn’t currently there. What do

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      Fair enough, although I don’t think the police would much care about this detail if charges were pressed:)) That’s why I suggested trying to solve things amiably first, it’d be a nice little exculpatory element in case things fall apart and OP is required to… procure their stuff directly.

      Although this does raise a good point, in that OP may even try involving the police should their ex refuse to return their things, although they’d require proof of ownership for that…

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        I think your advice is right, definitely better to settle it with consent if possible