every time we go out to eat, I take like two bites and feel like throwing up, and I’m not one to get nauseous easily. this only started when we started dating (wed been best friends for 3 years or so up until that)

its not new food, I’ve been to these places many times before

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    Then journal. Dump your thoughts onto paper, consider and reconsider. Just write out what you think. It can be a text file, a paper notebook with pen, whatever. Just write a lot.

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      yeah that could help, I’ve just always been a “bottle it up and call it a day” kind of guy

      dunno, my mental health has been improving now that I’m out of school honestly so well see

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        Don’t bottle it up. Decades of experience talking here. Do what you can to come to terms with your feelings, thoughts, etc. Then find a job that has good mental health care and see a therapist.

        Advice: you will likely need to try out a couple before you find the right one. When you’re comfortable with someone, you’ll know.

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        Don’t bottle up. That was the whole point of Inside Out. You have to experience the emotions.