I have used linux for a couple of years now and it was one of the most bumpy beginnings (and ends) i ever had with software. There was little a moment that wasnt marred by some kind of problem.

I could write a book on all the problems i had encountered and some of them happen several times, but here are some highlights:

  1. monitors not being all recognized unless its plugged in in a VERY specific order
  2. monitor 2 not having the correct colors
  3. audio not coming out of the correct source, the default source changing when something else that can sue it is plugged in, and also changing after a restart
  4. gaming, proton barely EVER worked, rated gold or platinum on protondb? fuck you it wont even start for you
  5. wine is not much better, lutris also fucked up several times

What broke the camels back today:

I stream, on wednesday my controller stopped working so i couldnt continue to stream, an hour after i stopped? the controller started working again great right? no, today the same shit, controller doesnt work.

Linux continues to have awful roadblocks that make even the most stubborn user (me) switch back to windows for now

But ah i am not dont yet, getting support from other users is about as much a fools errand as it is for windows, just sprinkled in with a lot more brown nosing elitism. And i imagine i will get similar comments here cause lemmy has the same circlejerks reddit has.

As long as linux continues having the most mundane problems with NO solution anywhere it wont get anywhere, if it werent for steamdeck it would still hover around at below 3%

See i like linux, i like how the ui feels and all, but i just cant anymore, i want shit to actually work and linux just cant provide that yet

  • solomoncaygnuyou@kbin.social
    136·
    1 year ago

    I won’t downvote you for having an unpopular opinion. But I’ll definitely downvote you for putting passive aggressive shit like “can’t speak bad about linux on lemmy now can we” in your post title. Lemmy isn’t a monolith and your experiences with downvote brigading and dogpiling isn’t universal.

    • Square Singer@feddit.de
      6·
      1 year ago

      Tbh, OP isn’t wrong there. Their language is maybe a bit too harsh, but especially in communities about Linux, they really do crucify you if you say anything bad about Linux.

      And “anything bad” can range from “I got a problem” over “I have an Nvidia GPU” to “I use Ubuntu”. And “I’m frustrated with Linux” will in 100% of cases lead to a lot of downvotes.

      • be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social
        52·
        1 year ago

        Been a Linux-only user since 2007. Except in some very corner cases, every time I’ve seen someone complain about how people dogpiled them instead of helped them with a problem, it’s been because they “asked” for help with a post that started something like OP.

        I see examples every single day of of the community being helpful to people who have problems, even when user ignorance is part of the problem.

        Catch more flies with honey than vinegar and all that.

        • Square Singer@feddit.de
          41·
          1 year ago

          I don’t think that’s fair.

          I think it’s totally understandable, that someone gets ranty when they spent 5h trying and failing to fix something that should be simple.

          And compare that to how similar requests for help are handled in Windows communities.

          Someone has a big issue with their Windows PC, they spent a lot of time trying and failing to fix the issue.

          So they post in some online community “I can’t get this piece of crap working. I’m so frustrated with the useless hoops I have to jump through”.

          The reaction to that, without fail, is “Yeah, I understand why this is frustrating, because it is frustrating and it sucks. Maybe these pointers could help you”.

          Do the same with something related to Linux, and the answers range from something like your comment (“asking” for help), to helpful comments like “I’ve never had issues with this, so you must be doing it wrong” to people outright claiming, that the person asking for help is actually a Windows troll who only posts to drag Linux through the mud.

          To summarize: in Windows communities there are hardly any fanboys who get butthurt when someone offends their creed. You also never hear “It’s working fine for me, so you must be doing it wrong”, because most people (even ones without a technical background) understand that not everyone is experiencing the same set of bugs.

          In Linux communities, all of that is very common.

          • be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social
            23·
            1 year ago

            If you think the bracketed passive aggressive BS in the title of OP along with comments within their post disparaging the same community who they expect help from is the correct way for anyone to go about trying to get help about any piece of technology from a community of volunteers who aren’t paid to help them, then we’re just going to have to agree to disagree.

            Edited to add: The very substance of the post is “I know everyone here likes this thing, but I think it’s shit and I’m going to tell you why” - how is it the fault of the community when that doesn’t result in constructive discussion?

            • Square Singer@feddit.de
              3·
              1 year ago

              If you think the bracketed passive aggressive BS in the title of OP along with comments within their post disparaging the same community who they expect help from is the correct way for anyone to go about trying to get help about any piece of technology from a community of volunteers who aren’t paid to help you, then we’re just going to have to agree to disagree.

              Tbh, if you don’t want to help someone, that’s totally fine. Then don’t help them.

              But don’t post, to use your terms, passive aggressive bullshit like “It’s working for me, so you must be doing it wrong”.

              And it’s an issue that I have only seen in Linux communities and communities that draw the same crowd, that people get really pissy if you complain about a product.

              For example, check out this post of mine over on r/linuxgaming: https://www.reddit.com/r/linux_gaming/comments/17w5hyo/process_of_setting_up_steamprotonnvidia_prime/

              There I documented what I had to do to get Risk of Rain 2 to run on Linux and compared it to Windows.

              I didn’t offend the community or the people there, I didn’t even say anything really negative about Linux or any of the involved products. The only thing I said was “Things could need some improvements”.

              I had an upvote ratio of 17% and except of one comment, every single commenter wrote some form of “I don’t have that problem, so you must be the problem”.

              The most positive comment there was “I think you are exaggerating”.

              This is what a toxic community looks like and if you’ve been on the receiving end of that stick a few times, I am not surprised that comments like the one of the OP here follows.

              Linux fanboys (most people using Linux aren’t fanboys, but sadly enough of them are) hate people using other OSes than them. They also hate people using other distros than them. And they hate anyone who dare suggest that the software they are using might contain bugs.

              And this is something you don’t get in communities of any other OS.

              I think that’s a pretty terrible thing, because these people are really effective at driving newcomers away from Linux.

              • Mandy@sh.itjust.worksOP
                2·
                1 year ago

                dont think i have seen anyone be this understanding of the situation i have written this in, and you seem to have been in the same situation as me more than once it seems, so thank you for being this understanding of a heated post and sorry you had similar experiences

                • Square Singer@feddit.de
                  2·
                  1 year ago

                  Yeah, the thing is, people in that kind of situation usually stop asking questions or stop using Linux alltogether.

                  These toxic fanatics that keep attacking everyone who could use help with using Linux are at least as effective at keeping the market share of Linux low as Microsoft’s anticompetitive behaviour is.

                  And, tbh, anyone who hasn’t had a problem with Linux where they had to spend >5h to fix it probably hasn’t done anything else than using Linux to launch a browser.

              • be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social
                12·
                1 year ago

                But don’t post, to use your terms, passive aggressive bullshit like “It’s working for me, so you must be doing it wrong”.

                Quote me doing so.

                Tbh, if you don’t want to help someone, that’s totally fine. Then don’t help them.

                I can’t fathom why ANYONE would voluntarily help someone who comes at them like in OP.

                • Square Singer@feddit.de
                  2·
                  1 year ago

                  Didn’t say you did, I only said I am using your terms.

                  You can’t fathom, because apparently you can’t or don’t want to understand the difference between being frustrated with a product and/or certain parts of the community and a direct attack at you.

                  I totally understand the OP’s point and if I had a helpful solution, I would help them.

      • Mandy@sh.itjust.worksOP
        1·
        1 year ago

        sorry about my language, this was written in the exact moment as square singer describe,d i was getting a lil heated after having tried to troubleshoot something that worked perfectly for 2 days

      • solomoncaygnuyou@kbin.social
        23·
        1 year ago

        tbh, OP is definitely wrong here. I see shitty behavior from shitty people in every community on Lemmy. The linux community is not special in this regard. And the passive aggressive attitude is not justified because “something should have been simple”. It’s linux. Can it be frustrating and complex? Sure. Is it ever helpful to allow that frustration to translate into a social media post about the entire software ecosystem? No, lol.

        • Square Singer@feddit.de
          2·
          1 year ago

          Nope. The behaviour on about any community on Feddit.de for example is really good and constructive.

          Too many people see using FOSS as part of their identity rather than the products they enjoy using. And these people usually get really offended when someone says something negative about their product.