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  • syreus@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldHe will weep.
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    2 months ago

    Mountains don’t grow in a day. We don’t feel the ground shifting under us.

    I would argue the majority of people react to sharp critique by closing themselves off. I know plenty of people that started by reducing their meat intake to a few meals a week. That kind of conversion is the most likely to get results.







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    2 months ago

    So It’s hard to get into the headspace where I could get offended by being called cis but I’ll try. Here is a metaphor that hopefully won’t be too offensive.

    Imagine if vegetarians started identifying non-vegetarians en masse with the label “Omnivores”. The first critique would likely be, “But it’s normal for humans to be omnivores; It’s the neutral state!”. That’s how most people, including many allies, feel about being cis. It’s the neutral state to them and doesn’t/shouldn’t require a label.

    Obviously context matters but I can see how inflection could make it sound like a slight if someone is already loaded with insecurities.