53 here, not playing online multiplayer anymore (frustrated with being unable to compete at the same level due to work stress, and time commitments in general), but I do have 4 digit hours of Civilization. Thinking back, almost 20 years ago I got anti-gaming vibes from my peer group. Fuck 'em, do what you want.
Honestly if I had to sit thru ads to watch youtube videos I’d stop watching. I have 300+ subscriptions and after 15 years, can barely stand to watch more than a couple of them anymore. It’s just not that interesting anymore.