I took it to mean that they’re like me and buy a bunch of games but never put in the time to play most of them.

I’d love the option to choose different colors for votes, but please don’t try to force Lemmy to be like Reddit. I came here specifically to avoid Reddit.

Yes, it’s supposed to be visible on every instance that’s federated with your own. It can sometimes take some time to sync between servers though, and I’d expect it to stay like that for a while. There will likely be improvements to the process once everyone’s sorted out the recent surge of new users.