The thing is, you can’t really engineer against anti-social behavior. For every better made apartment you will find that there is an even bigger anti-social idiot who still manages to make life hell for their neighbors.

I’m pretty blessed with my mostly boomer neighbors (🤞) who don’t make a peep after 10PM, but my girlfriend has had some shitty neighbors even though her apartment is pretty well made. Sound insulation between apartments is no match for cigarette and marijuana smoke wafting in from the balcony below any time you want to open the window to air out, or if, heavens forbid, you want to sleep with the window open in the summer, nor does it help much if they are partying and speaking loudly on their balcony until 4AM on weekdays. And then I’m not even getting into how they’re treating shared spaces.

The proximity makes everything so much worse than it would be with a house, at some point only adding distance helps.

https://imgur.com/UJtFNp7

A core memory of mine is getting flung off of one of these things because of the centrifugal force, falling on my back, and being unable to breathe for like 20-30 seconds … until I screamed at the top of my lungs, and things slowly returned to normal, while the teacher just went: oh you’re fine, don’t be a baby. I was 6.

All true, yet it has nothing to do with what we are discussing, so why are you muddying the water with it?

my body, my choice

It’s a bit more complicated than that with transplants. Should people for example be able to sell their kidney to the highest bidder? That’s also “my body, my choice”. And should doctors be forced to participate in such a scheme?

A transplant system should consider fairness, equality and possible abuse. Obviously I think it should be possible to donate to a loved one, but we should also be careful not to create a system where the rich get priority, because they can pay more, and where poor people could be financially pressured to give up their bodily integrity by having to sell an organ.

We’re explicitly talking about a situation where the donor is suitable. So I don’t know what kind of information you’re trying to add here.

The past year or two I’ve found several stores where they are abandoning it. I presume because people carrying cash, especially coins, is becoming rarer and they don’t want to inconvenience their customers?

Strangely enough, carts still get returned even at these stores.

Even if her partner could donate his own liver, it should still go to a better recipient

That’s nonsense, because the partner would not donate his liver if it went to someone else.

Or ctrl+w to close the fucking site and never come back.

It’s apparently a hobby and to be competitive, you need to be able to spew bullshit at amazing rates. Personally I’ve maxed out at 140 wpm

I’m limited by the rate at which I can think of bullshit.

yet all I needed is a “this side up” symbol …

No can do, you just pressed Z after the UNDOs

Like a time traveller who accidentally steps on a butterfly and erases the whole future that he came from

Depending upon their genre and your city’s size, they may never come nearby you

The joy of living in a central, densely populated area of Europe … I’ve been able to see almost all niche bands that I’m into live.

The problem with that is that they are usually in tiny venues, often with no seating (some of us have issues with standing for a few hours straight), and absolutely terrible acoustics.

Not true at all where I live, except for the seating part sometimes. There are many small to midsized venues with ticket prices well below €50, and they all have way better accoustics than the large concert halls, and it’s a much more personal experience than in a >10,000 people venue because you can be way up close with the artists.

For example, these are all venues I’ve visited in recent years, I rarely paid more than €30 for a ticket:

• https://www.abconcerts.be (has seating)
• https://www.trixonline.be (no seating)
• https://www.deroma.be (has seating)
• https://www.hetdepot.be (has seating)
• https://botanique.be (no seating)
• https://www.effenaar.nl (no seating)
• https://www.013.nl (no seating)
• https://www.viernulvier.gent (no seating)
• https://www.doornroosje.nl (no seating)
• https://www.tivolivredenburg.nl/ (has seating)

Platforms like reddit and Tumblr benefit from a friction-free sign up system.

Even on Reddit new accounts are often barred from participating in discussion, or even shadowbanned in some subs, until they’ve grinded enough karma elsewhere (and consequently, that’s why you have karmafarming bots).

Is this a problem here?

Not yet, but it most certainly will be once Lemmy grows big enough.

Due to the energy crisis in Europe at the beginning of the Russian invasion of Ukraine, as a cost saving measure some cities here in Belgium decided to turn off the street lights at a certain time. I think they went dark at 23:00 or 22:00, so your Cinderella Lighting scenario.

I thought it felt quite peaceful to have some true darkness, and wouldn’t mind it back, but at the same time if you had to walk outside at that time, it could feel a bit unsettling even if I live in a very safe neighborhood. I also found that there were some practical issues like, not being able to see obstacles or the state of the pavement, so you had to tread carefully. I’d definitely buy a decent flashlight if they implement that again.

Later, I suppose after complaints from citizens, they reverted to turning only every other streetlight off. I didn’t like that at all, it was the worst of both worlds. There were still patches where you couldn’t see properly, but none of the peaceful feeling of true darkness. Since a year or so it’s back to all streetlights all night.

I mean there’s plenty of space for it between Iceland and Ireland, and it would close the GIUK gap…

If your average Windows user calls tech support, they’ll get a simple answer

They’ll get a simple answer alright. In fact, they’ll be lucky if they get any answer at all that is not reboot, retry, reinstall or some other cargo cult nonsense from some on-paper “MCSA” in a third world country.

And sorry for going on a rant here, but Windows tech support forums are truly the shit tier of all tech support forums, because very few people actually have the skill to properly diagnose problems in Windows when something outside of the realm of expected behavior occurs. It’s all learned behaviorisms instead of understanding: reinstall your drivers! defrag your hard drive! run ipconfig /renew! clean your cache folder! delete your cookies! Never: “look in the system eventlog for an error event coming from this source, and tell me what the error code says”

What is the problem with “jargon” anyway? You can’t discuss technical things without using technical language.

If you take a bunch of Windows nerds (yes they exist), and get them talking about group policies and registry edits and powershell cmdlets, you get the same thing.