The number of Blåhaj I share accommodation with is countably finite.
It varies in practice. Most people I see using identify, including many trans people, are well-intentioned and think it’s the preferred polite language without thinking too hard on the implications of it.
However there are definitely anti-trans people who will use it pejoratively, which I presume is where that wording originated.
Nimona and there’s a bit in The Legend of Korra.
For anime there’s Wandering Son (trans), Yuri on Ice (gay, didn’t see the hype myself), and I’m currently working through S1 of Mobile Suit Gundam: The Witch from Mercury which my housemate and I refer to as Space Lesbians - though technically its more bi. I watch subs, so can’t comment on dubs.
https://friture.org/ is the one I’ve been using.
The anti-trans groups champion her book, so I think it’s safe to say that she is not impartial.
This is called the “bus rule” around here, you don’t sit beside someone if there’s a still a set of seats you can have to yourself.
I’d be more worried if they did sit beside you, as that’d be considered a bit creepy.
It’s either my alarm clock or 5.1 speakers, both of which would be somewhere over 20 years old.