This is nursing, my 7th day of employment at a new unit. Coworker is in her early 60s on the fatter and smaller side, walks slowly, bouncing her whole body to left and right, is slow giving report, even though she has less patients than me and feels entitled not to deliver and pick up trays or drinks to patients, the whole 24 of them, looking for stuff to do at the computer when the time comes, conveniently sitting, while the rest of us do her effing job. Last time we had shift together I invited her to work with us, which she ignored.
I dread the day I have a shift alone with her with no helper. This unit seems to be perpetually understaffed: Normal seems to be 2 RN for the whole unit when there should be 3. If we’re lucky, we get a helper (not a RN).
On one hand I feel I should tolerate it because she is almost a senior and apparently is difficult for her to walk.
But this feelings of compassion disappear when I see her pretending to be busy while I’m moving patients, delivering trays, preparing drinks and sometimes feeding them. Her entitlement expecting I do her job no questioning it is what irks me the most. Employee me says escalate, make known this bothers me this much, but don’t know what an appropriate reaction to this looks like.
As said, I just started working there 7 days ago. She’s been at this unit much longer than me, which means management must know and tolerate this. Nursing is known for cliques.
Hey, I remember one of your other posts where you were asking about nursing & autism. Unfortunately, it seems like you just have to suck it up for now as she is obviously your senior.
You could bring it up with her and ask if there’s some sort of give and take you could negotiate (since you seem to be doing some of the tasks she would otherwise normally perform), but I would seriously advise you to work on how you want to phrase it because you’ve had issues with this in the past.
I also think it’s a bit judgemental of you to criticize a 60+ year-old person for being slow and fat. When you’re 60 you will be slow and you may also be fat, but you’ll have decades more experience.