Spongebobsquarejuche [none/use name]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · edit-29 days agoWhat did I miss?hexbear.netimagemessage-square54fedilinkarrow-up187arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up187arrow-down1imageWhat did I miss?hexbear.netSpongebobsquarejuche [none/use name]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · edit-29 days agomessage-square54fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up40·9 days agoThings are so much easier when one has the “I don’t want to make other people feel uncomfortable” principal. I don’t pretend to be some perfect guy, but I don’t recall being “given sharp, disapproving looks” in at least a decade if not much longer.
minus-squareDragonBallZinn [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·9 days agoIt’s always pretty sus when discussing this, if they paint themselves as the REAL victims. If they mentioned that as you said, they don’t want people to feel uncomfortable, then that’s totally forgivable.
Things are so much easier when one has the “I don’t want to make other people feel uncomfortable” principal.
I don’t pretend to be some perfect guy, but I don’t recall being “given sharp, disapproving looks” in at least a decade if not much longer.
It’s always pretty sus when discussing this, if they paint themselves as the REAL victims. If they mentioned that as you said, they don’t want people to feel uncomfortable, then that’s totally forgivable.