• Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    17 days ago

    I like that. I would like if someone said that to me.

    I’m so fortuitous that both my partner and myself are in camp “just say what you want, it’s not weird”

    All of my precious partners have been in camp “just do things, don’t say things” which I found so weird.

    Now I can just say “wanna do stuff in an hour?” And my partner will be like “eh maybe, do you wanna do stuff?” and if I say “yea” they’re like “dope aite”

    • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz
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      17 days ago

      Doing whatever you want, or having someone do whatever they want, can be really hot.

      But even if that’s what they want, I like to actually establish thats what they want/are ok with.

      Asking is just always a good idea, because then everyone is more likely to get exactly what they were hoping for.