No judgment.

  • Volkditty@lemmy.world
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    Happily married for 10 years, but my wife’s independent streak was one of the main things that attracted me to her. We share plenty, but it’s always been important to us to have our own hobbies, friend groups, and private time. I don’t want to be her whole reason for living and I don’t want her to be mine.

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      I feel this is so underrated and often looked down on relationships, but it’s so healthy.

      I find my relationship to my wife stronger because of it. We are not together because we need to but because we chose to every day.