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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AcrobaticLecture4355 on 2023-08-24 14:40:57.

I share custody of my 10yo son Jared with his mom. His mom and I don’t like each other. She lives in a condo and rents out two of the rooms for income whereas I live in a house with my younger two boys from another relationship.

My son was supposed to go back to his mom’s last night and flat-out refused to go. It was out of the blue and never happened. It took awhile but he said he wasn’t comfortable with one of her roommates who walks in on him when he is in the shower or bath. He said “she keeps seeing me naked.”

I was pissed that my son is sharing a bathroom with his mom’s roommate. His mom said Jared’s not even there half the time so why does he need his own bathroom? As far as his roommate walking in, she said her roommate is female and has zero interest in him and it’s not like she’s going into his bedroom. Plus Jared likes taking long baths and showers.

I said Jared has a legit reason for not going back so he’s not. Call the sheriff but they’re not going to force him to go back and they’ll be more interested why your roommates are in the bathroom while your son is in there. She has far more to lose than I do. The only person he feels comfortable with seeing him naked is me, his half brothers, his doctor and his friends.

I asked to reconsider her stance if her roommates were men and we had a daughter. She called me a misogynist so I said now he’s really not coming back to your house.