• marcos@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    suffered in bad childhoods

    Just to say, but what causes those things are hate and fear.

    The second one doesn’t require trauma.

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      2 months ago

      Fear is a general human trait woven into our existences and should/could be reduced in a loving and supporting childhood. If love and support are missing in your childhood you don’t learn to handle your fears in a mature and stable way.

      (I know I’m painting this picture with a very broad brush. It’s to point in the general direction of feelings as the most plausible and applicable answer to OPs question.)