So I like plants and gardening. My appartment is full of plants and I have a small herb nursery in my window sill. I’m currently growing three basil plants and a pepper plant.

I go to social media for tips and tricks and as usual it’s full of people with grade A set ups producing lots of herbs and veggies and stuff. I started growing my pepper plant and after weeks I managed to produce a whopping number of 1 pepper. The weird thought that occurred to me was: I failed. I failed because my pepper plant isn’t as productive as the plants I see online.

Meanwhile: did I have fun doing this? Yes, I loved watching the progress of this plant. I did feel cool when I added my home grown pepper to my dinner. Isn’t that what hobbies are about?

How many people are out there quitting things because they aren’t immediately good at it because social media primed us to crave instant satisfaction through constant dopamine hits? Pick up hobbies, be bad at them, learn, have fun.

  • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    This is a big issue with fitness content on social media. The majority of the creators are a bunch of men, and increasingly women, with unrealistic bodies, on anabolic steroids and performance enhancing drugs while lying about it, and giving out poor workout and diet advice so they can sell you some overpriced nonsense program.

    The problem with legitimate fitness content is that there is only so much you can say before you repeat yourself endlessly. So the big legitimate fitness YouTube channels pump out short content that’s just a repeat of their multiple years old videos, so they can remain relevant amongst all the fakes. Which is vastly preferable to the nonsense put out by illegitimate fitness influencers, but still a little annoying, that to get the good knowledge out there , you have to participate in this endless rat race to the bottom, that is modern social media.

    I just work out and do my own exercise program I made now, I don’t care if it’s suboptimal and not trendy/in fashion, I’m having fun and seeing results. You should do that too with your own hobbies, and it seems like you are so that’s great.

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      My goal is to have a home gym and I know it’s kind of an individualist dream, but one thing that was getting increasingly on my nerves were people at the gym (people I knew from there mind you, not random strangers) telling me my program was suboptimal or I should do things differently. Also this thing pays for itself after one year, two at most, compared to a gym membership.

      You do lose the social aspect but I’m fine with that, and you gain on the commute. If I had a home gym I would probably train twice a day lol, once for my workout and second for some cardio.

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        I just do calisthenics at home now. I’m not going to a gym, can’t afford it and gave no desire to do so. If I do end up going to a gym in future, it will definitely be one of the smaller local ones, instead of something like planet fitness

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          Could you share what your workout plan is like, if possible?
          Curious to know about the exercises n plans that people do, who are not ‘influencers’.

          I’ve been interested in calisthenics for a while now, consuming fitness content around it. But have never stayed consistent with it.

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            Well I’m focused on gaining weight and getting bigger muscles/muscle hypertrophy, so I don’t do many skills, just the basics done with high intensity, close to or at muscular failure in the 6-15 rep range. So definitely not high rep calisthenics. I’ve been training seriously for your about over a year and a half, in my early 20s, 70kg/154lbs at 185cm/6’1. Before starting, I used to weigh 57kg/125lbs. Once I get to 15 reps, I change out the exercise for a harder variation. I’ll put my current rep counts in brackets. All reps are pause reps with controlled negatives, this is very important so that you don’t cheat the reps by using momentum. I’ve added videos of the exercises as well.

            Day 1:

            Three sets of chest to bar pull ups (10), three sets of single leg squats (13 on each leg), three sets of decline push ups with elevated hands for a deeper chest stretch (12), and three sets of single leg calf raises with a deep heel stretch and an 8 second negative (11).

            Day 2:

            Three sets of single arm inverted rows (12), three sets of of partial rep Nordic curls (6), three sets of deficit pike push ups with elevated hands and feet for a deeper stretch (8), and three sets of tibialis raises for ankle health (15).

            Day 3:

            Same as day 1.

            Day 4:

            Same as day 2.

            After this, rest for one or two days, depending on fatigue. If really exhausted, rest for a third day.

            For me diet has always been focused on clean bulking because I was so underweight. I’ve found peanut butter to be very helpful in adding calories to meals. I put it in my oatmeal now, also lots of peanut butter sandwiches. Also rice is really cheap where I live. So I had a lot of egg fried rice with some protein like chicken or beans added to it, and cheap vegetables like carrots, with lots of spices and soy sauce for flavour.