• fastandcurious@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Why does this make me sad? I ironically do actually prefer seating alone but something about this doesn’t feel right

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        11 months ago

        I actually think that it has more to do with the fact that i prefer to sit alone but i don’t straight up want to make sure that i don’t speak to any stranger ever again

        But then again i don’t like too much socializing, ig my brain just doesn’t know what it wants

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          11 months ago

          You can just walk up to them and talk, but since they are sitting in one of these chairs, they likely will want a brief conversation and be left alone. Also, socializing in other places like a bar or in a park is not outlawed. Do try to be friendly and courteous. The best way to start a conversation is by introducing yourself. Then, hop into what you wanted to talk about. Maybe even try to start with a topic that can transition to your final goal. In the end, there is an intention behind every social interaction, and it can either be casual or formal. Maybe that is what you are desiring, for a known intention/goal to connect with others.