I’ve heard it explained that “hey” used to be more of an urgent way to get someone’s attention, rather than a casual “hello” like it is now, so it sounded rude to some older folks.

    • soupcat@sopuli.xyzEnglish
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      11 months ago

      I don’t think either phrase is impolite. Good manners are a made up thing. If someone said ‘thanks’ to me and I said ‘tiddle dee dee’ I’m not being rude, just a bit weird, nobody’s honour has been questioned, I haven’t said anything that could be taken as an offence.

    • ImFresh3x@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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      11 months ago

      It’s literally meanings of words strung together being described.

      You are welcome = you are welcome to my servitude

      No problem = I don’t mind doing this thing for you

      Oh you. 🤦‍♀️