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    16 days ago

    I’ve volunteered at Pride a few times, been to more, and honestly I tell people if they’re in those events and are in danger (like someone is following them or they feel scared after an incident) to look for drag queens and go straight towards them.
    I have personally witnessed how militant they can be when it comes to protecting weaker folk, and some of them are RIPPED!! I don’t really know exactly what the reasoning behind it is, though in my experience they’ll keep you safe.

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      It’s even better when they stay in character as well, “bye, baby we don’t need that here”.

      • Angry_Autist (he/him)@lemmy.world
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        Few things have brought me more joy than watching a 6’3 empress carry a shitbag out by their belt with one hand, and tossing them to the sidewalk and calling out ‘If this fine young man has any friends, you better come get him before I gotta pass my wig to someone.’

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      If they weren’t confident in defending themselves they wouldn’t be confident enough to wear the uniform.

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    I love this and resonate with this far too much.

    But quick question, what’s the screeching cat symbol and where do I learn more? My Google Fu is lacking and the closest I see is union representation?

  • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    16 days ago

    beats dying over a conservative that doesnt understand basic economic theory and doesn’t believe in a thing called “reality” because they subscribe to an alternate version of reality that quite literally doesnt exist.

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      Is this a bit or do you really not know what drag is?

      A drag queen is (usually) a man who dresses in an exaggerated female style for performances, and often have an over the top or pun stage name (ex: Divine, Kim Chi).

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        Registered 1 week ago and this is their only comment. I want to give them the benefit of the doubt but…

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          But now a whole lot of people are better informed. Save the hand wringing for if they come back in bad faith. Or as my mom used to say, don’t borrow trouble.

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        If they’re ESL I totally get it. Neither of the two component words in their most common use would lead you to the correct meaning.

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          I learned English (3rd language) and the phrase “dressed in drag” made no sense to me

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        No I had no clue. Only know the word as a verb or in the context of drag coeficient. Thank you for the explanation.

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      the words honestly are confusing. i can admit that. out of context “drag queen” would mean nothing to me either.

      as i understand it, a drag queen is someone (usually a man?) who dresses up in flamboyant clothing of the opposite gender and takes on a character, like a stage identity, and everyone’s stage identity is individual to themselves. from what I’ve seen, the stories behind a stage identity are often as interesting as the costumes themselves, which can be very intricate and eye catching.

      drag queen competitions can feature singing, dancing, showmanship, acrobatics, comedy, and are a good time, check one out if you get a chance.

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        (usually a man?)

        Often yes, but not always. Women occasionally dress as drag queens. The whole idea is to be absurdist, taking femininity to the extreme, being flamboyant, and gay as fuck.

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          Accurate. Woman (or men, I guess, never seen it myself) can also be Drag Kings, which is the same idea of applying extreme flamboyance to the concept of masculinity. Things like exaggerated handlebar mustaches, very well-coifed beards, cod pieces, lip syncing to Elvis, etc. Still also supremely gay!

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            Absolutely, because drag is inherently, culturally queer. It’s like putting on a Freddy Mercury costume as a straight cis dude. Even if you yourself aren’t a part of the LGBT, the act itself is queer.

    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      i like how it’s always the fairly innocuous questions that gets shit. That’s my favorite part of the internet. We have so much respect for people, except for the ones we don’t like, and even less for the ones who we think might be doing a little bit of trolling.

      The internet wouldn’t be the internet otherwise.